Creating Memories

Wonderful memories are created each and every day of our lives. I frequently am reminded of something positive from my childhood when I hear a certain song, eat a certain food or just have one of those déjà vu moments.  Even a certain odor can take us back many years to a great memory.

A Van Halen song brings me back to days at a lake in Nebraska while in High school. Homemade noodles take me back to family functions at Grandma and Grandpa’s house with extended family.

As I’m writing this, Don’t Stop Believing by Journey is playing.  This song reminds me of great times at a Church camp in Nebraska.  Several years ago in grade school, I went with some friends to Camp Comeca and had a blast.

Homemade banana pie takes me way back to the early 70s.  My granny made the best banana meringue pie!  I can remember those days clearly.  After school I would go to Granny’s house and watch Gilligan’s Island and play.

30, 40, 43 years later, many of those memories still bring a big smile to my face.  I’m so glad I have those positive memories.

The Pina Colada Song by Rupert Holmes that was playing earlier reminds me of a store called the Korner in my hometown.  My best friends and I spend hours in this store buying candy and fishing lures.  The Korner has been gone for several years.  A liquor store has replaced it.  By the way, I do stop in the liquor store once in awhile when I go back to visit my parents.

I remember Sunday nights when my favorite cousins and aunts and uncles left and went home.  It was sad as our home was empty after everyone left. It would be several months until I would get to see them again.  Oh but what a great time we had when we were together.

Some of my favorite events with family were times at the
fair and holidays.  I remember many, many years ago, loading up cousins in the back of a pickup truck and going to the fair.  If one of us were out of line, grandpa had a
Caltalpa tree in his yard with long pods that were used to spank us.

YES! We got a good old fashion spanking back in the day. We can’t do that in today’s politically correct world that we live in.  That’s a topic for another day.  This topic is about creating lasting memories and legacies.

The small things in life that our parents, grandparents, friends, family etc. do creates a legacy and lasting memory in our lives.  Many of those moments may be sad and bring some tears to our eyes, but later in life bring a smile to our face.

Those of us that are parents now need to ensure that we continue to create lasting memories and legacies in our children.  Some of those memories will make our children smile and some will make them cry.  Just because our kiddos cry, doesn’t mean we are evil parents.  Crying is a natural way of releasing emotions from our bodies.  Let’s face it, babies cry, toddlers cry, teens cry and adults cry – it is ok to sob occasionally.  We shouldn’t punish kiddos each time they release some of their emotions.  If we punish our kids each time they cry, we are telling them it is wrong to release emotions.  This could create heartless kiddos that do not care later in life.
Sometimes the flood of tear is a relief, freeing and cleansing aspect of life – it is ok

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I made a Tactical Error Today

I took my family to Baskin Robins today.  I couldn’t pass up some ice cream on such a nice day.  As always, I ordered last and sat down at the table last.  We had to have two tables since there were six of us.

I started to shovel ice cream in my mouth when I realized I had my back to the door.  My wife knows to always sit with her back to the door when we eat out (I have her trained pretty good).  For some reason, something didn’t feel right and my gut told me to switch seats with my son.  I listened to my gut!

I’m now facing the door and resuming shoveling the ice cream.  I noticed a group of thugs walk by and look in the window.  One of the thugs said something to the others and he turned around and headed for the front door to Baskin Robbins.  My gut told me to clear
leather, so I did and had my Glock on my lap as I scooted the chair back

The thug entered Baskin Robbins and turned around at the door and made sure it shut
tight.  He briefly fumbled around at the door – not sure what he was doing, but it definitely got my blood pumping as I was sure he intended to rob the joint

He quickly approached the table that my wife and step daughter were sitting at and started
harassing them.  I engaged in some ‘friendly’ conversation with the thug.  He made some
inappropriate comments directed at my step daughter (flirting with her) and then left.

On the way home, I took the opportunity to provide some ‘training’ to my wife.  We discussed what to say to the dispatcher when she calls 911.  It’s important for spouses to communicate to dispatchers that their husband is an off duty law enforcement officer and provide an accurate and detailed description of the armed husband.  It’s also important for
the armed officer to have identification out and ready when the on duty, uniformed Calvary arrives.

Another important aspect of carrying off duty with your family:  If you are right handed, always have you spouse/significant other walk on your left side.  If crap hits the fan, they will more than likely grab onto your arm.  If your gun side arm is grabbed, you may not be able to get your gun immediately.

If you carry off duty, be sure to take time to offer ‘training’ to your spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, etc.

Be safe!

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Will Your Name Be In The News?

Will Your Name Be in the News?

If it is, let’s hope it will be for a positive event!

For those that follow Mental Ammo, you know that I update law enforcement news at least once each day on the Police News page.  I have focused on the following Law Enforcement News events:

  • Positive / human interest stories
  • Use of Force
  • Officer suicides
  • Officer down

I refuse to add negative news stories such as unethical and illegal acts that law enforcement officers do.

Each time I sit down and start googling for news to add to my website, I
come across so much unethical and illegal acts that cops are involved in.  I still refuse to add this type of news to my website.   I will address it here on my Blog.

Here are some headlines from the past 24 hours of posting:

  • Police officer arrested in domestic disturbance
    Drunken trooper kicks in door, assaults resident
    Police Officer Arrested For D.U.I.
    Airport K-9 Officer Arrested For Soliciting A Minor

There has been more news stories related to officers arrested for child porn, and other illegal and unethical acts.

This is unacceptable!
How do we get the message to our fellow officers that this must stop?

I know a majority of law enforcement officers are ethical and do the right thing.  To all of you – Thank You!  Keep up the great work!

To those officers that break the law – STOP! You give our
profession of warriors a black eye!  We are tasked with keeping our communities safe.
How can officers do this when we have a few that break the law?

I haven’t figured out why cops are doing this.  At first I thought it was a generational
thing.  I noticed two recent incents where a 20 and 30 year career officer were both charged with soliciting a minor.  I know it is not a generational issue.  I still haven’t figured this out.  If anyone has any idea why so many cops are breaking the laws please zap me an email.

I have been involved with a major law enforcement web site
for several years.  These illegal and unethical acts are not anything new.  They have
been going on for years.  In fact, I have noticed that the illegal and unethical acts that LEOs (Law Enforcement Officers) commit have the most hits.  It is sad that the positive, heroic actions of LEOs on websites I contribute to have a lower hit ratio than the illegal and unethical actions.  Why is this?

Can some of these acts be preventable?  I believe so!
As cops, we tend to look the other way when a fellow officer is believed to be doing something wrong.  We suspect that an officer may be having marital problems that can lead to some type of violence.  If our gut tells us that something is not right with Sgt. Smucketelly.
Listen to your gut!  Encourage those officers that you think have or will have issues to call your employee assistance program.  I know many agencies have something set up for these types of issues – we need to use them more often.

Maybe, just maybe our early interventions can save a career of a LEO!

Please check out the Police News Page on Mental Ammo’s website for daily news!

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REMINISCING

REMINISCING

As I sit here sipping on a Sam Adams waiting for my steaks on the grill and listening to
the Little River Band and other 70’s and 80’s tunes, I start ‘Reminiscing
of the good ole days when I grew up in a small town in Nebraska

A few things I remember from the 70’s and 80’s:

Sitting down with the entire family and eating dinner (I still do this).  We didn’t have cell phones to interrupt a family discussion.  My mom was the ‘Lady’ that made sure we all had an awesome meal!

 

Getting my butt spanked when I deserved it.  It worked!  Mom had a wooden spoon she used to ‘Whip It’ (my butt).  I use to tell her to ‘Take it easy on me’.  I never said, ‘Do That
To Me One More Time
’.  Most of those spankings were for ‘Little Lies’.  Be honest and always tell the truth!!! Boy, did I put myself in ‘Jeopardy’ at times!

 

I remember telling my parents to leave me alone, this is ‘My Life’.  I did try to ‘Escape’ a couple of times.  I’m glad they didn’t leave me alone.  I’m definitely glad I didn’t ‘Give it up”.  After all, if I left, who would do my ‘Dirty Laundry’?

 

We use to take our bikes to the Nature Hole and ‘Jump’ them!  That hole is gone now.

 

I remember going to the skating rink in Grant and wow, ‘Oh What a Night’ we had!

 

I use to DJ several dances in High School and I would ‘Play that Funky Music’.

 

I enjoyed running and did well in track and cross country.  I really loved running when ‘Raindrops kept falling on my head’.  I think I was ‘Born to Run’!

 

During high school, I thought it was time for ‘A Cool Change’, so I signed up for the Marine Corps with several of my buddies (The Boys of Summer)!  My girlfriend at the time begged me to ‘Please Don’t Go’.  It was definitely ‘Time For Me to Fly’.  I was a little worried about ‘Stayin alive’.  The Corps was willing to ‘Take a Chance on Me’!  After Marine Corps graduation, I heard someone say ‘The boys are back in town’!  After the Marine Corps, I did tend to ‘Drift Away’, but now in the Facebook era, I’m easy to find.

 

Looking back, I can’t complain at all because ‘Life’s been good’!

 

If only ‘I Could Turn Back Time’!  I sure was in a hurry to grow up back then.  Couldn’t wait unit I turned 16 then 21.  Time seemed to move so slow back then.  Now, it is going too fast.  I guess we can’t be ‘Forever Young’.  I definitely had a lot of ‘Dreams’ growing up, but am very happy with the life I have now!!  I guess ‘That Was Yesterday’.  I’m thankful for every experience in my life – ‘I wouldn’t have Missed it For the World’!

 

After all this reminiscing, maybe Imperial is ‘Back Where I belong’

 

As I write this, my wife reminded me that today is my parents 48th Anniversary.  I made sure to call and say, ‘Happy Anniversary’.

 

I was recently back home for a ‘celebration’– we had our family reunion.  I reconnected with many family members that I haven’t seen in years.  I did ‘Cherish’ the time I spent with family

 

What do you remember from your early years?  How many times do you have to ‘Roll With The Changes’?

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Bang! Remeber Col. Cooper’s Safety Rules?

Negligent, Accidental or Unintentional discharges?  I prefer the term Negligent Discharges.  Negligent Discharges appear to be happening too frequently. 

Here are some recent headlines regarding Unintentional/Negligent Discharges:

Now, I was not present at any of these ‘accidents’, but I would bet that one of Colonel Jeff Cooper’s 4 Firearms safety rules was violated.  Now is a good time to review those safety rules:

  1. All guns are always loaded.
  2. Never let the muzzle cover anything you are not willing to destroy.
  3. Keep your finger off the trigger until your sights are on the target.
  4. Be sure of your target and what is beyond it.

The NYPD annual firearm-discharge reports that over the past 10 years, NYPD Officers fired 4,702 bullets.  NYPD Officers accidentally pulled the trigger 323 of those times.  I do not know the circumstances of the incidents that the ‘trigger was pulled accidentally’.  

I post these numbers and news stories to hopefully stress the importance of the Four Firearms Safety Rules.  A Negligent Discharge could be a career ending ‘accident’. 

Be Safe and Train Hard!

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BUCKLE UP!!!!!

Do you wear your seatbelt?  If not, WHY NOT??? 

A recent study by the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration found that at least 42 percent of police officers killed in vehicle crashes nationally over the past 30 years were not wearing seat belts.  The study also found that fatal traffic crashes were the leading cause of death for officers across the country last year — for the 13th consecutive year.

Early in my law enforcement career, I was one of those cops that didn’t buckle up.  I wanted the advantage to get out of my cruiser quickly.  I definitely had my share of potential accidents.  The wake-up call for me was a near collision with a cow standing in the middle of the highway.  I decided then I had better start wearing my seatbelt!

Many of us don a bullet resistant vest and other tools to keep us safe – why not buckle up the seatbelt when we get in our cruiser?

I hear many excuses as to why cops don’t buckle up.  The most common is, “I can’t get my gun if I need it”.  I usually ask if the officer has ever trained or practiced drawing their firearm while seated in their cruiser.  Every officer that I have talked to stated that they have never trained that way. 

If so many officers are concerned with drawing their firearm from sitting in their cruiser, why are we not practicing this?  I have practiced – and it is somewhat challenging at first with and without the seatbelt on. 

Officers should be training this way several times a year with several repetitions each time.  ENSURE YOU ARE TRAINING IN A SAFE MANNER!!!  USE A BLUE/RED GUN OR ENSURE YOUR DUTY WEAPON IS UNLOADED!

Maybe agencies should have a monthly roll call devoted to wearing seatbelts to remind us all of the dangers if we don’t buckle up.  Demonstrations just like flight attendants do on how to buckle the belt could be done.

Don’t be a statistic – Buckle up and be safe!


 

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What is Your New Year’s Resolution?

Here’s some help if you are having a difficult time thinking of oneGo home safely at the end of each shiftTraining needs to occur to help us all go home safely!  Here are some of my recommendations (please feel free to add to them):

Get to the Range

Not just to qualify twice a year.  Practice!  Move and shoot.  Draw and fire with your right and left hand.  Draw and fire from unorthodox positions (sitting, on back, on belly, on side, etc).  ALWAYS TRAIN SAFE!

Hit the Mat Room

It’s very likely that you will be in a fight during your career as an LEO.  Get in the mat room and enhance your arrest control techniques. Don’t just go through the motions, get tired and sweaty and fight and then get those cuffs on (don’t forget to double lock them).  Don’t forget the groundfighting!  Most fights end up on the ground – If you don’t train for fighting on the ground, chances are you won’t win the fight.

Go to the Gym

You owe it to yourself, your family, your partner and your department to be in shape!  You do not need to be Mr. or Ms. Universe, but you do need to be in shape.

Read Books

Keep your mind sharp!  There are many excellent books related to the law enforcement profession.  I have several recommendations on my website (BOOK RECOMENDATIONS). 

Seek Training

Chances are that your department can’t afford to send every officer to Street Survival or the ILEETA conference.  Many officers attend quality training on their dime.  Start saving and choose a training course that you would benefit from.  Check with your State POST.  In Colorado, there are many free training events if you keep looking for them.

These are just a few ideas.  I hope whatever you choose will definitely give you the ammo you need to Go home safely at the end of each shift.

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Reducing Law Enforcement Deaths

What can be done now to reduce law enforcement deaths?  The October issue of Law Officer magazine provides these tips:

There are several things we can do to reduce law enforcement deaths and even injuries, but many officers ignore these things. 

I am going to add to the Law Officer Magazine’s list.  Today (Oct. 23, 2010), I was at a red light, next to a marroon crown vic.  I knew this car was an unmarked traffic unit for local agency.  The officer obviously clocked a person exceeding the limit.  He or she (the windows were tinted) activated the lights and siren and safely went through the red light. 

As I headed down the road, I could see an officer standing in the lane of traffic making contact with the speeder.   This is the point that concerns me.  The officer had stopped the speeder, turned off all emergency lights and was in a lane of traffic contacting that speeder.

Once I got home I got my laptop and opened up the Officer Down Memorial page.  I clicked on the current year and noted that 5 law enforcement officers were struck and killed by a vehicle.  In 2009, 7 Law enforcement officers were struck and killed.  If you follow the news on my website that is updated daily (Police News), you will see many officers have been struck by vehicles during traffic stops.

I would like to encourage all law enforcement officers to keep your emergency lights on during traffic stops for the entire stop.  Many states have the Move Over law.  Motorists can not slow down and move over if they do not see any emergency lights.

If you know a Law Enforcement Officer that does not wear a seat belt or wear a vest, please encourage them to wear that life saving equipment!

I would like to know if anyone thinks it would be appropriate to turn off the emergency lights during the contact.  Please post your comments.

Be Safe!


 

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National Police Week: May 9-15, 2010

Each May during National Police Week the nation pauses to recognize the service and sacrifice of U.S. law enforcement.    This week we remember those brothers and sisters that have lost their lives serving our communities. 

A few people do not understand the importance of this week.  Some just do not care.  But those of us that don the blue, brown, green or whatever color of uniform know the importance and significance of this week.  We honor the officers who made the ultimate sacrifice.  Their honor, service, and dedication to duty will never be forgotten.

I had the honor to serve with Melissa Schmidt while in the US Marine Corps. 

On August 1, 2002, The Minneapolis Police dept lost a great Police Officer. Melissa Schmidt was shot and killed by a 60 year old woman.

Melissa Schmidt

Melissa and I served together in the Marines on Emabassy duty in Nassau, Bahamas and Havana, Cuba. Melissa was a dedicated and honorable Marine! She was also one heck of a basketball player. She always kicked my tail all over the basketball court.

I will never forget the great moments I spent with Melissa. This week, I pause to reflect on all the great times I have had with Melissa and cherish those memories. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with her and her family.

I also pause to remember ALL the law enforcement officers that gave their life to protect all of us.

We should never forget the mothers, fathers, sons, daughters, brothers, sisters, husbands, wives, family and friends that lost their loved one.  The brother and sister law enforcement officers should be kept in our thoughts and prayers as well. 

Please take some time each day this week to offer a moment of silence and reflect on those officers that died doing what they loved with honor!

So far this year, 61 law enforcement officers have lost their lives.

Total Line of Duty Deaths: 61
Aircraft accident: 1
Assault: 2
Automobile accident: 16
Fall: 2
Gunfire: 22
Gunfire (Accidental): 1
Heart attack: 5
Motorcycle accident: 3
Struck by train: 1
Struck by vehicle: 2
Vehicle pursuit: 2
Vehicular assault: 4

By Month:
January: 19
February: 15
March: 14
April: 9
May: 4

Average tour: 12 years, 12 months

Average age: 41

By Gender:
Female: 2
Male: 59


 

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Are You An Easy Target?

Recently, law enforcement warriors have been threatened, attacked, ambushed and assassinated by gang bangers, thugs and knuckleheads.  This trend is extremely disturbing! 

Are we as cops making ourselves easy or hard targets?  What can we do to make ourselves a hard target?  Here are a few tips:

AVOID ROUTINE

We are creatures of habit on and off duty.  These habits can be helpful to someone that wants to harm us.  It is essential that we break some of these habits.  Here are a few of the main “habit” to break:

  • Alter your route to and from work.
  • Alter the time you leave home and leave work.
  • Avoid going to the same restaurant at the same time.
  • Alter your shopping habits  (Go to different stores at different times)

REPORT ANYTHING SUSPICIOUS

I know cops that say it is embarrassing for them to call and report something.  This is a macho profession that we live in and for some, calling and or asking for help is not a macho thing to do.  We call for back-up when responding to calls while on duty.  I had some thug try to break into my house in the middle of the night and I chased him without calling for assistance.  After the fact, I realized that was pretty dangerous.

The bottom line is this, if you see someone following you, watching your house, call and report it.  It just may be noting.  Are you willing to bet your life of the life of your family it?

ACCEPT THE FACT THAT YOU MAY BE A TARGET

We are living in some desperate times and we do make a few people angry.  We do not know how some of those people will react when they get out of the slammer.  We should always be looking over our shoulder on and off duty.  Many of us let our guard down while off duty.  We cannot afford to do this.  I’m not advising everyone to be paranoid – just be AWARE!

GOOGLE YOURSELF

You will be surprised how easy it is to get information about you and your family. 

There is a site called spokeo.com that is an online phone book.  It has a picture of your house, credit score, profession, age, how many people live in the house. Remove yourself by the Privacy button on the bottom right.  There are many more sites like this one.  There are some companies that can assist law enforcement officers in removing their information from the web.  It just might be worth it!

PLAN WITH YOUR FAMILY

Make sure your family is aware that being a cop can be dangerous.  They should also follow these tips.  Designate a place to meet your spouse if there appears to be something suspicious near your residence.

These are just a few things you can start doing now to make yourself a more difficult target.  There are many more things that you can do.  Avoid complacency and be aware! 

 Feel free to add to this by posting your suggestions.

Here are just a few incidents of thugs targeting law enforcement warriors:

BOSTON, MA:        

Officers who patrol the city’s toughest neighborhoods have been ordered to ride tandem until further notice, barred from driving alone because threats from gang bangers. 

Read the full story:  Threats of revenge put police on guard

WASHTENAW COUNTY, MI

Nine militia members were arrested and charged with conspiring to murder a police officer then attack that officer’s funeral with improvised explosive devices.

Read the full story:     Police officers under fire

HEMET, CA:

  • Riverside County sheriff’s Department reported hearing of a threat Friday evening to blow up a “black and white” patrol vehicle somewhere in the Hemet and San Jacinto area.
  • Four city pickups with amber light bars were torched across the street from the police department and its gang-enforcement office.
  • Someone rigged a gun to go off at the parking-lot entrance to the Hemet-San Jacinto Valley Gang Task Force offices. It did fire, but no one was hit.
  • A gang officer found a device under his car.
  • On New Year’s Eve a gas line to the office was rigged so that it could have triggered a deadly explosion.

Read the full story:     Gang Targets SoCal Cops With Bombing Attempts, Arson

LAKEWOOD, WA

Four officers were executed as they sat in a coffee shop in full uniform.  They were preparing for their shift when the suspect walked in, went up to the counter as if to order coffee, then turned and opened fire.

Read the full story:     4 Lakewood officers slain; ex-con sought for questioning


 

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